Family Attention

 

 

In my opinion, I think that both of them should pay attention between them, because if the child pays a lot of attention to his or her parents and they don’t pay them the same level of attention, it would be unfair, and it’s the same in the opposite way. I know that parents have to work and pay all the bills and they’re too busy, but a kid needs the attention of the parents, in one way or another, if the parents don’t show the needed attention to their children’s, they will feel lonely, and also they can think that the parents don’t love them, because they pay them so less attention that they sometimes even don’t show affection to them and that could be very dangerous for the growing of the children’s.  But nowadays, there are children’s that not show attention to their parents, they pay more attention to their friends, to go out on the house and being in the streets or in party’s or the most common, they pay more attention to their  technological devices and they don’t say even a hi or I love you to their parents. The parents, also can feel like the kids, that they are ignore for their children’s, and they can enter in a several case of depression. That’s why I think that both of them should give the same level of attention between them.

 

-Rodrigo Escalante 

In my opinion I think They should listen each other to make a good relationship . Some people have four children’s and parents don’t care about the second child so he feels lonely and last born child wants  attention and make disorder  . I think they were supposed to show them appropriate behaviors instead to yelling or get angry with them  On the other hand, parents are authority  because they teach them to listen .  This kind of parents know how to control difficult situations  like dinner time , going out or  partying . children’s don’t control parents  but sometimes they does , when a child makes his tantrum to get something . Parents who works a lot  just care to give their children everything they want and make them happy with material stuff parents think that is the way to control  them but the are wrong  this causes the child to become spoiled and disobedient .This a problem that families have in the last years . To conclude ,  I think that children’s need a strong , loving , relationship with a parent but sometimes they don’t  . parents have to give them  enough time to spend  and  talk about what is going on between them . I think that  way they could solve their problems.

-Flora A. Farfan Condor.

Personally, I think that both are important, both of them should complement each other. If children pay more attention to their parents, they would learn many things. Why do I say this? I say this because parents have already “lived” more than what we have, that’s why they have more experience and because of that they can give their children advices and that’s when children should pay attention. And now children may not notice it but those advices will help them in the future. But nowadays everything is the opposite than what we have expected for this generation. What I’m trying to say is the kids prefer to do things by their own instead of paying attention to their parents. On the other hand, parents should pay attention to their children too. The reason for saying this is that if parents don’t pay attention to their kids, they would probably don’t know what they like, how to give advices to them. And in my opinion some parents of these days think they know how to make their children feel loved. But they do it in the wrong way. What I mean by this is that they just care to give their children everything they want and make them happy with material stuff without paying attention to them because those parents think that doing that his/her role of parent is complete. However, this will affect the kid in the future because they might have what they wanted when they were kids but they didn’t have that parent affection and the kid will probably feel lost. And that is why both should complement each other. I think that is the way how family works. It should be like a “giving and receiving” thing, listening to all the opinions, agreements, etc.

In conclusion, if children pay more attention to their parents and parents to their children, both will establish a good relation where the key to peace is communication and there won’t be “big” problems because each one will listen to the opinion of other’s without having to yell or fight. But because of this children don’t have to forget that their parents still being the “authority” and that if they tell you something is just because they know what they’re doing.

-Angie Carbajal Corrales